Opinion we have about ourselves based on beliefs and past experiences is referred as self-esteem. It makes us feel worthy of respect, confident, and valuable. Low self-esteem or self-doubt can affect our productivity at school adversely. It can make a person resilient to face challenges in life, impact social life of a person and make him believe unworthy of love. When a person worries too much about opinion of others, fear of judgement fills them with sadness and guilt.
When a person chooses to live in the present moment, he is least concerned about the future. Only be your true self, pretending to be someone else to impress others may make you feel vulnerable, and can destroy your self-esteem if you fear being found out. Most of us prefer to stay in a comfort zone, rather than pursue our dreams because of fear of failure and criticism. We make plenty of mistakes in every route we take. Let yourself make mistakes, it will only change you for the better and give you a chance to learn and develop in life. Parents should foster the self-worth feeling by helping them express their desires and needing and learning to think about themselves.
Instead of regretting or apologizing, it is easier to admit your mistake after letting someone down, and concentrate on fixing the same. In this universe, we all have a role to play, while paying attention to sorrow, worries or melodrama, don't lose your focus from the bigger picture. Show appreciation when someone supports you and gladly offer whenever you can, it will offer your self-esteem a new meaning. Place the heart and soul in it when you plan to do it. Too much concern about whether it's going to turn out right, if others don't like it will help and just affect your results.
